Do you think I should get a job even though I suffer from depression, anxiety, and am morbidly obese?

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Do you think I should get a job even though I suffer from depression, anxiety, and am morbidly obese?
I am quot and lbs and am losing weight, finally. You see, my hub works jobs and its hard just keeping the house clean cuz I get so obsessed over everything. I was on here a few wks ago and was telling ppl how I feel so nervous to get a job cuz I feel so fragile right now with my emotions and anxiety, and most people said that right now it might not be a good idea, and that I need to make it my focus to get the weight off st. I agree. However, there is a new prob. Now, we are really hurting for . My hub keeps hinting to me about how he doesnt know how he can make it on his alone. The deal is though, is that quothequot must have some sort of prob himself cuz he has no sense of money. I tried to reason with him a yr ago to not buy the ton diesel dually truck he wanted, but he quotwantedquot to, so now we are paying way more on gas. I tried to reason with him yrs ago that we couldnt afford a mower, but we have . I feel by getting a job I would be paying for his next.....

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I think you should get a job if you want one. You need to figure out that you are a great person and you can make your own decisions. It sound to me like he is a lot like I am. No sense of money, impulse spender. Although, I do not mind my wife working, by any means. By the way, you are NOT MORBIDLY OBESE. You are a good hearted, caring woman that deserves to get out into the workforce and be PROUD OF WHAT YOU ARE DOING! Keep on losing weight, and keep tabs on your progress. even take pictures of yourself and put them on your computer so that when you weigh lbs, you can look back and appreciate the determination that you have in your heart. brbrIf you want to get a job, you do it, and put a little money away for YOURSELF and reward yourself at every , or lbs lost. brbrHe could be concerned that after you lose your weight you are going to leave him, like quotwho are you trying to impressquot or something. Tell him you are concerned about your health and you want to impress him. so he can buy you new clothes rather than a motorcycle.brbrYou Keep on Going. Congrats.brbrGet a job. Do it.